To the Men Who Only Want Sex…

Dear men,

Let’s start off by saying women want sex just as bad as the next guy. We are completely capable of having intimate relations with men and have no emotional attachment and that is totally acceptable, whether society wants to view it as such or not.

If you have set your eyes on a woman and she reciprocates any kind of attention than wow! can we get a round of applause for you? but let’s get this straight, as humans, we deserve attention and respect just like our male counterparts and I think a majority of men forget that…

They seem to think that women are here as a trophy of some kind. An accessory to their great world who must cater to them throughout their lifetime and please them in any sexual favors they demand.

News flash! Women want sex too but not only when you want it. Do not come into our lives and act like you want to get to know us and understand who we are if, in the end, all you want to do is get in bed with us.

We’re all adults around here, aren’t we? Then act like it. If you only want sex and not a relationship go ahead and voice that so we can make a decision if this is what we’re looking for too.

The key to adulting is communication. 

Women aren’t difficult creatures like you men claim us to be, we want honesty in the end and the way we react is completely up to us. Do not try to find a justification as to why we’re reacting the way we are. “Are you on your period?” is not a good question to ask when we are furious with your decision or answer. These are my emotions, that’s all the justification I need.

All in all, if you want sex, say it. If you want to be in a relationship, say it. Plain and simple.

Adios Borrachxs! ?


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6 thoughts on “To the Men Who Only Want Sex…

  1. Women really aren’t some confusing unworldly creatures. Women don’t want to be manipulated into having sex. You’re right, the key to adulting is communication. If people were clear about how they felt, there would be more open and genuine relationships formed.

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